Hair today...hair tomorrow?

Hair! Glorious hair! its been said, "the bigger the hair, the closer to God." while the southern girl in me loves that statement and wishes it were true, i know it isn't. i also recognize that not all big hair, not even the one pictured, will get you closer to God. :)

i've been contemplating my hair situation as of late. i know its not on the plane of ending war or poverty but listen people! these are the thoughts in my head :) i've been growing it out, my hair. the decision to grow it was partially related to me wanting to and partially b/c i was seeing a guy who liked longer hair. this is where it gets tricky for me...i think, as much as i am able to think such thoughts about myself, that i like myself better with shorter hair. my hair is slightly wavy and i like how it can look "messy" when its shorter. its also loads easier to fix. people often say, "oh when your hair is longer you can do so much with it." that may be true but the fact of the matter is i rarely do much of anything. its either straight or wavy (which is done thru styling products and tools as the natural wave doesn't hold in my loooong hair). if i'm being entirely honest, i usually end up pulling it up in some sort of mess toward the end of the day. however, as a woman you want to be desirable and if a halo of hair is that option then sign me up. but mostly, i "think" that long hair is sexier or prettier and everyone always comments on my hair and they think its pretty and blah blah blah but the point is-the hair gets on my nerves. right now my hair is just long hair and i feel kind of over it....here are some options i'm considering...please feel free to leave your thoughts.

aw...the "posh" hairdo....i know! i know...this is so jennifer anniston-esque type hype from 1999. p.s. i wanted jen's hair then too...either way, it is what it is and i want this. i love it. i think its messy and can be sexy. it has the "bed head" look i'm going for...the problem? i'm no victoria beckham! she had a super short pixie cut a while back and i thought i had a crush on her...she can pull off whatever.

scarlett johansen (sp?)...she is always hot...how about this look? can it pulled off? help! i need hair help! :)

what are your thoughts on the "bed head bob" should i, or shouln't i?